The Sound of Men Not Crying

Grief came quiet—
shoved in gloveboxes
with old rego papers
and blunt tools
kept for no reason.

Tears weren’t banned,
just lost
between Dad’s silence
and busted knuckles,
between she’ll be right
and a door
that clicks shut slow.

We didn’t cry
when the dog died,
didn’t cry at the funeral,
didn’t cry
when she walked out.

Just sat there.
Fence posts in floodwater.

We break
in the gut,
in the jaw,
in the muscle it takes
to say I’m fine.

No one taught us
where to put the weight,
only
not to drop it.

Ryan Stone


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15 responses to “The Sound of Men Not Crying”

  1. And, men are, socialized that crying is a sign of weakness, when in reality, it takes a REAL man, to shed all his, tears, and, that’s the trouble with, men…

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  2. A brilliant verse and a superb finale, Ryan …

    “No one taught us
    where to put the weight,
    only
    not to drop it.”

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    1. Thanks, mate. You’re a legend. Appreciated as always 🙂

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      1. Always my pleasure, Ryan

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  3. Wow! This was spectacular Ryan. I cannot even imagine what that must feel like to have to hold in all your emotions. I certainly hope people are not still raising their boys like that today.

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    1. Thank you for your kindness, Violet. We can hope…

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  4. Oh, Ryan…. this is so emotional and beautiful.

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    1. Thank you for reading, dear CC

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      1. It’s always my pleasure, Ry

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  5. I’ve often thought of the weight men carry because they don’t cry. Beautiful, Ryan.

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    1. Thank you, Sarah. Such an interesting thought 🙂

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  6. Not all who wander are lost Avatar
    Not all who wander are lost

    Wow

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    1. Thanks so much 🙂

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  7. your poetry always hits me so hard that i simply don’t have words. ❤

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    1. That’s more than enough said, thank you Ren. Lovely comment 🙂

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